here’s the tea: today bf informed me that recently, he ran into one of my good friends at the local bar we all frequent, and essentially as she was leaving she came onto him. specifically she said ‘why haven’t we fucked yet’ (which is crazy) while hugging him goodbye. however, he did make clear that she was blackout drunk and likely wouldn’t even remember that this happened. still, he was really put off and upset by this i’m quite conflicted bc it really came out of nowhere, we’ve hung out the three of us many times, there’s never been an inkling of vibe from her, and i’ve always thought of her as a mature, loyal person. it’s upsetting because this is a friendship that i’ve been trying to nurture for the past 2 years and part of me doesn’t wanna lose that, but this is essentially a huge betrayal if intentional. would i be a fool to give her the benefit of the doubt on the basis of her being blackout, or is this friendship dead?