how tf do u maintain them? i do my best to be communicative of my needs and receptive to theirs and i know sometimes ppl drift apart i just cant withstand another friendship fizzling out or being told not to reach out to them again. cant control ppl reactions/feelings, i dont want to feel like a victim in my friendships, etc etc ive been thru it all really but i guess im looking to the wisdom of pifi users and their stories for comfort