This is a Am I The Asshole type of issue but here we go… so guys… i let my friends situationship borrow my beloved camo pants for my birthday party bc she wanted something cool to wear and i was like “what the hell, sure. as long as i get them back.“ and she was like “yess ofc.” little did i know that i haven‘t seen these pants for THREE MONTHS. these pants where my dads cunting pants and give me that timmy thick waist like SNATCHED.. the one time she told me she was gonna bring them to me she got in a car accident 😭😭 so she literally tried. but, i’ve dmed her for the past like week or so and she posts, but doesn’t respond to me pls help. i’ve literally offered to give her money to mail them to me. no hate to her i just want my pants 🤕