Posting up outside and observing the neighborhood daily is a mission inherited from my father and his father. Every day offers something different , or , new information to an unfolding story. You find out whoâs dating who and whoâs driving what, or youâll see two twins jump out of a mini van doing cartwheels in unison. The other day, an ex-boyfriend I hadnât seen in 5 years (weâre both blocked on everything !!!) just strolled on by. I couldnât believe it. I was like Damn, I am never leaving this watchtower.