in:
✿ preparing healthy snacks
✿ not wearing makeup
✿ speaking clearly and honestly
✿ having self control
✿ boys in maryjanes
✿ duolingo streaks
✿ neuroqueer feminism
✿ PDA
✿ being kinda messy
out:
✖ comparing to others
✖ drugs and alcohol to escape
✖ monetizing a hobby
✖ going to bed super early
✖ guilting yourself into something
✖ sending 5+ memes to someone
✖ putting off therapy