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what does it mean to be someone’s friend? are people asking things of you that you can’t (or don’t want to) give? much to think about!
Dec 31, 2023
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hi, i have very little friends, which most i don’t always get to talk to frequently.
i feel like i do not hold significance in other people’s lives, and it makes me wonder what is wrong with me and why is it difficult for me to sustain friendships in which i don’t have to question them or spiral over my interactions with. i wonder if i’ll ever get to a point in being able to act and talk freely with a friend without concern and have my presence be enjoyed. for now, it feels like i am chasing dying sparks. how do people have their people?
Feb 25, 2025
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Speaking to a friendship aspect: finding my people was initially exhilarating. Being seen and accepted, feeling joyful and excited to spend time together, feeling like a team in the world rather than competitors are all things my first experiences with my best friends felt like. But there were also points where we pissed each other off or hurt each other or grew apart. what set apart these Friendships was being able to talk about it and wanting to be open about our hurt or anger. We reciprocally put in work to stay connected. I could trust my friends would listen to me and try to do better. i could Also trust that I would be forgiven when I needed to do better. To this day, they are the most transformative relationships I’ve had in adulthood and I’m always so grateful for them.
Feb 18, 2025
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Speaking to a friendship aspect: finding my people was initially exhilarating. Being seen and accepted, feeling joyful and excited to spend time together, feeling like a team in the world rather than competitors are all things my first experiences with my best friends felt like. But there were also points where we pissed each other off or hurt each other or grew apart. what set apart these Friendships was being able to talk about it and wanting to be open about our hurt or anger. We reciprocally put in work to stay connected. I could trust my friends would listen to me and try to do better. i could Also trust that I would be forgiven when I needed to do better. To this day, they are the most transformative relationships I’ve had in adulthood and I’m always so grateful for them.
Feb 18, 2025
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being an evil rotted hag is fun for about a week, but ultimately, we must do what is good and right
Jun 2, 2024
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i made stew with chicken, japanese sweet potatoes, carrots, leeks, and dried apricots & it was very tasty. i feel nourished!
Jan 15, 2024
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out of all the mushrooms in the world, they have the best texture. i just put a ton of them in some yakisoba! if you don't like mushrooms, grow the fuck up!
Feb 12, 2024