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Ugh, a little ~good vibes only~ , I know, and I realize this is, like, the vegetables of gossip, but I'm so into gushing about how much I love someone to someone else when they aren't there. That's positive energy, baby! RIDE THAT WAVE.
Jan 23, 2024
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it's like shit talking but instead you are just talking about how much you love someone. going on and on about the things you adore in someone. i always think about how flattered the person would be if they heard it all. i understand this is just called "being nice" but this term feels correct
remember to also reverse shit talk about someone to their face!
Mar 30, 2024
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I've realized I'm a good listener because people sometimes tell me things without me even asking, but I find it beautiful. I also enjoy gossiping. Like it's so sacred when people tell me their secrets. I feel like that girl from the movie Little Secrets (2001). It's a skill I cherish a lot.
Jan 2, 2025
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Last night at a bar while talking up a band I love I caught myself putting a separate but related band down. On the way home it bothered me that I did that, and it’s still bothering me this morning. I wish I had just focused on the thing I liked and the things I like about it rather than putting down the thing I don’t. It didn’t make my point any clearer and it didn’t make me feel good.
We’ve made such a currency out of putting things down, I wonder what would happen if we all spent a week only talking up things we like and left the things we don’t alone. We might sleep just a little better.
P.S. the thing I like most about this space is that it’s built to support exactly this type of thinking and sharing.
May 9, 2024
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Jan 24, 2024
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The ski lodge won't know what hit 'em! (Really, they will be very confused.)
Jan 24, 2024
I manage them and I have no shame!
But I wouldn't manage them if they weren't really, really good.
See/listen/love here: @maryshelleyband
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Jan 23, 2024