writing sincere postcards to your friends when you're away, telling them that you care for them, reassuring them, or just telling them about your trip.
even better when it's with your favourite pen or ink and you pick out a postcard that you know will resonate with people. you never know when the postcard is going to arrive and when someone's day will be brightened
Send more postcards to friends & family when youβre on a trip or to long distance pals from wherever you live - such whimsy - and there is a thrill when you get a card in the mail!
get fun postcards when traveling, they're usually in bookshops. write a bunch of inside jokes and stuff for your friends. once you start doing it everyone sends them to you when they travel its so fun
dropping your friends (or randoms) home or to wherever they need to go with jazz playing - unbelievably chill with a surprisingly high chance of random events or people entering
just message him. worst he does is not reply or say no which is already the status quo. there's a very high chance that he is thinking the same thing as you and he literally told you to - if he was being insincere then he is probably worth skipping anyway. if he keeps on lacking when it comes to taking initiative then reevaluate from there. GL!!!!