- actually enjoying bitter foods
- an espresso after dinner
- declining drugs
- going to bed before midnight
- having a weekday off work
- putting money in a savings account
- wearing prescription sunglasses
Ins: not giving a fuck / festivals / vodka crans / biker shorts / tennis / taking things a day at a time / walks / good music / iced coffee / spontaneous trips to the beach / flirting / good reads / linen pants / little treats / coffee shops / yoga out: exes/ negativity / hard seltzer / staying at home moping / making excuses / Starbucks / rum / waiting around for people who aren't prioritizing you / skirts
in
* being friends w me
* building community
* giving yourself & others grace and understanding
* reading more books
* drinking 2-3 glasses of wine and chit chatting
* drinking coffee at cute lil cafes and chit chatting
* laying down as often as possible
* going clubbing (maybe)
* being my friend out
* being “too cool”
* caring what others think about us (save for constructive, good faith feedback)
* taking shots
* yachts / PJs / opulence / billionaires
* not being my friend rec some of your ins/outs this summer ☀️
