Facetime Ur friends before the function + get dressed together. Find the synergy between Ur wardrobes. Try stuff on in real time. No posing for pics — spin for the camera instead
Have a niche interest only your internet friends can relate to? Go meet up with them! Make that interest come to life chatting about it over a cup of coffee, or visit a place where that interest is the theme! It makes sense and is so much fun!