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when i first decided to get sober like 2 years ago i knew i would totally flunk the sober test if i saw it as a test of will or whatever. like do or die kind of thing— take note that i don’t struggle with addiction issues. but when i approached sobriety with the same kind of curiosity that an elementary schooler might with growing a bean plant in different lights and different liquids, it’s really helped me to really… dare i say… trust the process
Jan 26, 2024
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i’m usually pretty judicious about what i keep and take to a bisque and then a full fire bc i hate making things that end up becoming a heavy burden of THINGNESS and often those things arent up to the caliber i want them to be. I’m learning in therapy that this is really bad perfectionism. I challenged myself to keep this speaker amplifier no matter how ugo she got ( i nearly scrapped her twice) but it’s growing on me bit by bit.
Sep 27, 2024
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bc everyone starts somewhere and experimenting/not being good at something can be fun if you let it
Jan 30, 2024
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like actually going out and trying things. put in an effort and take pride in that (being effortless is soooo out for 2024). use this platform to find new amazing things! you can never really know what you like and what brings you joy and fulfillment and all that cheesy stuff unless you actually go and really try a bunch of stuff. I love trying!
Feb 6, 2024
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making the bed is one of my absolute least favorite chores bc it’s just… it’s too big. too much flopping around. but when a friend asks me to help? such a beautiful form of intimacy and connection! it makes me so happy to know that at the end of the day when my bud is snuggling under fresh sheets and blankets that i helped em get there. we love a team work activity!!
Jan 26, 2024
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one of my friends named this a “decompression drive” and boy is it!! love thinking my thoughts while driving my car and listening to my playlists
Jan 26, 2024
i grew up in the catholic church which is obvs soooooo different than the mormon church but like, super similar?? anyway i was hoping for more Christian bullshittery on this branch of the Housewives franchise but it‘s just as campy and dramatic as Beverly Hills or the OC. i’m a huge fan of Jen Shah!! she is great TV!! i love how she’ll fucking chuck a glass across the room or splash the camera man!! idk. they’re great. lots of cattiness like the church. they all kind of hate each other. love.
Jan 26, 2024