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Asking ppl what their favorite Thing about themselves is

I swear this is a good party trick

@morganevans

Jan 30, 2024

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whatever comes up organically tbh

my brain doesn’t bookmark questions like that, so I would have to reference a list or something. most of my questions are centered around asking people to expand on things that are brought up in live discussion, creating a space for them to be vulnerable and share deep shit with me, etc.

@raineday

Jul 26, 2024

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don't overdo it

I totally get the temptation to ask insightful and thought-provoking questions but remember sometimes you need to keep it simple. If it's a loud party with lots of people, not everyone is going to want to have a super deep conversation with someone they just met. Small talk is annoying and tedious but sometimes it's a much-needed entry point. Meet some cool people, get their contact info, and then message them later with some big questions.

@spencerto

Jul 20, 2024

Top Recs from @ceara

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Favorite one sitting books

Stoner by John Williams Light Years by James Salter The Age of Innocence by Edith Wharton My Death by Lisa Tuttle Indelicacy by Amina Cain Thirst for Salt by Madeline Lucas I Love You But I’ve Chosen Darkness by Claire Vaye Watkins Also Being Here is Everything by Marie Darriessecq is a short little biography of Paula Mortenson Becker and it’s so moving - very good if you like reading about undersung women in the arts

@ceara

Jan 28, 2024

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casual obsession

hyperfixation on a person or thing but you’re, like, chill about it

@ceara

Jan 28, 2024

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rilo kiley‘s A better son/daughter

to me this is THE screaming song…unmatched levels of catharsis

@ceara

Jan 27, 2024