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Believing marriage and having children is cool and sexy

I’ve noticed a counter culture movement brewing online where the emphasis seems to be on rejecting neoliberal ideas of individualism and increasingly atomized living as a sort of virtue for the sake of our children who would suffer at the hands of climate catastrophe or just the cold hard reality of consciousnesses. Accounts like @carnivoreaurelius or @saveyoursons offer practical advice about the benefits of high quality red meats, the dangers of seed oils, not sunning your asshole enough and soulless dating apps. They provide some respite from the nauseating reality of the current leftist ideology that’s left a lot of us childless at 30 because of eugenicist level logic like “why would I contribute to our planet’s overpopulation issue?”. Pundits like Jordan Peterson and Candace Owens have built entire careers off this grift of “no nonsense” steps to a better, more righteous life. Don’t get me wrong, are these neoconservative pysops? Sure. But at this point it’s just about choosing which psyop makes life on Earth tolerable for you. I grew up in a culture that shunned the idea of marriage and children altogether because it reminded us of the traumatic lives our female ancestors just had to accept due to their lack of autonomy. Some cope by stating how relieved they are to enjoy their 20s without the responsibility of family and that they have plenty of time not realizing how hard pregnancy is on the body after the age of 32 or how expensive it is to freeze your eggs or adopt. I was repulsed by the idea for most of my life and then it hit me about a year ago…without a solid partner and cute fat babies around, life is kind of a hollow boring nightmare.

@bianca

Dec 6, 2022

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THE WOMEN WHO THINK THE WORLD NEEDS MORE BABIES (THE NEW YORK TIMES)

Profile on women in attendance at a pronatalist convention... woof

@taterhole

4d ago

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Tl;dr what you’re experiencing is indicative of a cultural shift

I read once that our culture teaches girls and young women that they have to work hard and plan to get what they want in life. Disney princesses have to take on a lot of responsibility. Cis white men on the other hand don’t get those messages. We’ve always been able to coast along and our privileged position in society has meant we can end up successful without planning or withoutinitiative. Now men don’t get by as easily as that, and they’re lost as to how to go about it. They do poorly in school, they lack self motivation, and they don’t get their shit together. Huge generalities in there, and I’m plagiarizing an article I read, but it feels right to me. I do think there’s something to the idea that American men are not prepared to fend for themselves in life. So I can imagine dating us is frustrating.

@bee1000

Jul 3, 2024

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Modeling your life after movies like Paris, texas​

Your life should be full of hardship, you should walk for hours on end across the desert in this disagreeable world, theorizing, you should wake up one day and find love is possible

@justinlapuff

Jan 26, 2024

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Chronological playlists

You are the main character, not Taylor Swift or the country genre. I think most people with an angst above level 3 do this, but you should make playlists about your epochs/arcs/eras random memory-tied tracks that bring you to moments of your life - you'll just enjoy it more.

@justinlapuff

Jan 26, 2024

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Watching femcel films as constructive research like obama + femcel translation list

I freakin' love Obama. He wasn't just the first black president, he was also the first openly soft boy president. Today we'll be adapting his famous technique "The Hussein Hustle" to modernity. Here Obama famously engages in an array of books such as Woolf, Fanon, ​and Marx in order to expand his empathetic ability to connect to varying populations of beautiful intellectuals with his steez. We will be employing similar techniques here however, with a reset focus upon femcel films and movies. Let's begin with an order of priority: 1. 𝐆𝐢𝐫𝐥 𝐈𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐫𝐮𝐩𝐭𝐞𝐝 Though it will be too much to review here, this film will form the other end of the psychological coin adjacent to the second suggestion - 2. 𝐒𝐮𝐜𝐤𝐞𝐫 𝐏𝐮𝐧𝐜𝐡 These first two narratives combined compose the entirety of the femcel experience, mastering these is understanding at the initial level. 3. 𝐕𝐢𝐫𝐠𝐢𝐧 𝐒𝐮𝐢𝐜𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐬 Sofia Coppola Instigated the dark fog of reality, this is the next to be understood as it most reflects their childhood fears and ideations in one neat parcel. 4. 𝐁𝐥𝐚𝐜𝐤 𝐒𝐰𝐚𝐧 Social rejection. Every femcel hates it reasonably or is a product of it. Understanding this means understanding the daily weights of your prospective partner. 5. 𝐁𝐮𝐟𝐟𝐚𝐥𝐨 𝟔𝟔 She wants to kill you and has every right to, she is the chooser. 6. 𝐏𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐬, 𝐓𝐞𝐱𝐚𝐬 She wants to have your children and has every right to, but they aren't her responsibility. 7. 𝐉𝐞𝐧𝐧𝐢𝐟𝐞𝐫'𝐬 𝐁𝐨𝐝𝐲 She can totally consume you. 8. 𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐫𝐭𝐞𝐞𝐧 Femcels are like Euphoria the tv show but an even more troubling activation timeline. 9. 𝐖𝐡𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐎𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫 Why tradcath conversion is imperative. 10. 𝐖𝐢𝐧𝐨𝐧𝐚 𝐑𝐲𝐝𝐞𝐫 𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐧 𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐬𝐡 One of the five ultimate femcel deities, this last ritual sacrifice now has you one step closer to the rebis consciousness.

@justinlapuff

Jan 27, 2024