It sounds like they don’t have the common courtesy to say the words to you that you need to hear. I am someone who needs to hear the words so if you are that way too, this probably feels impossible to walk away from. They are showing you exactly who they are and it seems like it’s time to see it. You know how when you take out the trash, you don’t go back and check on it? This person has taken themselves out for you. Stop checking on them. (Said with love and I’m so sorry you’re going through this)
Jan 27, 2024

Comments (0)

Make an account to reply.
No comments yet

Related Recs

recommendation image
🛎
Staying at the Roxy in NY (formerly the Tribeca Grand) is akin to being on an elegant cruise in Manhattan. It’s my home away from home in the city. Everything is there: from live jazz in the massive atrium lobby with the glass elevator zipping up and down and the divine food and drinks (I recommend the lobster roll and a mescal cocktail) in recessed leather booths shaped like teacups, to the gorgeous red velvet theater below - which offers the best films on screen in Manhattan - curated by the brilliant Illyse Singer. After attending a killer film and fascinating Q&A, retreat to the Django, the speakeasy next door, which stays open til 4AM and is often where the hottest underground music acts play… What else could you ask for? 
Jan 16, 2025
🎞
Made a WhatsApp group with all my film friends in it and have been using it coordinate going to screenings. It's so much fun! There's loads of little independent screenings happening where I live and some very good independent cinemas, but even if all you have is a TV you should start a film club too. This evening I'm off to an old pub that's been converted into an events space to watch The Garden by Derek Jarman 😎
Feb 11, 2025
😃
most underrated movie theatre in la. student tickets are $5
Nov 19, 2024

Top Recs from @marystuartflowers

recommendation image
😃
They are covered in chemicals, their carbon footprint is outrageous, and most importantly, the women who grow, harvest and ship these roses are living with diseases caused by the pesticides used. Find some paper and a pen, and write how you feel instead of “saying it with flowers”. This is coming from a florist who works exclusively with local and seasonal flowers. I made this from my garden this morning.
Feb 12, 2024
I’ve had my set of multiple sizes and shapes of Pyrex glass storage for YEARS and it’s the best I’ve used. As a mom of 4 I have leftovers at every meal so these get used a LOT. These can also be used in the oven and they don’t leach BPA’s into your food like inexpensive plastic ones. Also if/when the lids crack you can buy replacements on amazon without buying a whole new set. This is not an ad but maybe it should be.
recommendation image
Because it feels good, thats why. Be too much for people, be just enough for the right people. No softening of edges, no editing. Be everywhere you want to be. Haunt people.
Jan 24, 2024