sounds insane BUT! for example if you go to your friend’s place and they’re making lunch for you… put out their laundry if that’s something they hate doing! vacuum their apartment! it feels good to help your friends and in exchange you get to hang out + people really appreciate it!
Sometimes they get too overwhelmed to do them and I get super annoyed at all the messiness collecting. In my case, my housemates are good people who try hard but sometimes life moves too fast to remember to clean up party decorations etc. Instead of letting that resentment build up, it might be easier to do it for them. Because my housemates are so amazing, I know they will return the favour when I am the one in a funk ❤️
wear your shoes till the soles come off. you don’t need a new shirt. STOP mindlessly consuming things!!! enough!!! go sit outside for 10 minutes and think about if you are actually lacking anything material in your life (you’re probably not). if you do need new things have a thing-exchange with your friends it’s so fun! stop falling victim to overconsumption
