Feb 3, 2024
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there’s a certain sense of freedom that comes with accepting your fate as a spinster (at least that’s what i’m telling myself)
Mar 6, 2024
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went on tinder for a couple of days
and learnt how the dating culture is insane.
like a mating ritual was thrust upon me—
it all felt very weird to me.
firstly, putting yourself out there, like a product with a description
for any consumer to swipe right on,
felt objectifying—no humanity.
felt used in this capitalist society.
then there was some interaction,
got liked by guys. experienced no attraction.
but matched with only two men—
very uninteresting, both of them…
so I crashed out, swiped till no end,
checking, worrying if I got matched.
but I realised this isn’t who I am,
and sat lonely in bed with regret.
just wanted to make some emotional connection,
maybe find someone to spend time with,
only to learn the hard truth:
in today’s society, tinder is no use.
feeling rather silly,
because I used Tinder for a couple of days,
but got violated to my core,
and decided this isn’t what I’m made for.
i’d rather meet someone in uni,
or in a bar or a club,
where I’m not a list of hobbies and interests,
where I’m just a person looking for love.
Apr 30, 2025
May 17, 2025
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don’t forget!
Feb 3, 2024
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I think that walking through daily life, smell is an underappreciated and underutilized sense. Just as a beautiful sunset or bird song in the park can ignite a really pleasant feeling in us, so does getting a big breath of that humid air after a rainfall, or of a stranger’s heavy floral perfume, or the exhaust of an old passing car.
once I was walking to class, really stressed and in my head about things, and just remembering that I have this whole other sensory facility to enjoy liberated me wonderfully from the internal spiral. it smelled like rainforest in vancouver that day, as it does today.
Jan 30, 2024
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learning a song with this tuning and it is so satisfying
Jan 31, 2024