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yesterday my friend told me that i sometimes sound like i'm going thru the five stages of grief when i talk about things that bother me … a little painful but like damn maybe. now the goal is to Be better
Feb 3, 2024
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🗣rid yourself of the need for saving face with the use of therapy words. of course there’s nuance here, but not every conflict with a friend calls for boundary setting, flag raising, and accountability. accept the fact that humans are inherently flawed and that we’re all just doing our best.
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Knock on wood, but i feel like I've finally left the agonizing part of life when you realize that you've said something dumb immediately after you say it and so live in a perpetual state of cringing at yourself.
When I was a teenager, I was blissfully ignorant that I'd said something dumb until hours to days later, so tended to have my moments of cringe late at night and all at once.
In my early twenties, I spent my life in a constant state of embarrassment, trying to shove words back into my mouth as I realized a statement was tactless/offensive/mean/weird/etc. as I was saying it, and then needing to immediately apologize.
Now, it feels like I'm able to recognize that it would be a bad idea to say something before I say it, and so am able to significantly reduce the amount of cringe in my life. Hopefully I can keep this up until I get dementia in my old age <3
When I was a teenager, I was blissfully ignorant that I'd said something dumb until hours to days later, so tended to have my moments of cringe late at night and all at once.
In my early twenties, I spent my life in a constant state of embarrassment, trying to shove words back into my mouth as I realized a statement was tactless/offensive/mean/weird/etc. as I was saying it, and then needing to immediately apologize.
Now, it feels like I'm able to recognize that it would be a bad idea to say something before I say it, and so am able to significantly reduce the amount of cringe in my life. Hopefully I can keep this up until I get dementia in my old age <3
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Throughout my life I learned to hide aspects of myself that I felt ashamed of or afraid that others wouldn’t understand and I’ve been trying so hard not to do that anymore. It’s definitely beneficial but hard.
Jul 2, 2025
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yesterday i needed a bite of this and could not find them in the stores near my house. classics fr they make u feel disgusting and amazing
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michael bise (former gap employee) compiles gap's in-store playlists from 1992-2006 and some campaigns