I’m not talking just in the same city, I mean literally as close as possible. in the same neighborhood, on the same block, even in the same building. if you actually like each other you should be able to handle the proximity, look at Kramer and Jerry. however more realistically, just sharing the same corner bar is powerful, powerful thing.
one of my best friends just moved back to mtl and she lives a 5 minutes walk away, and nothing makes me happier than us being able to see each other most days! even just for 30 minutes to grab coffee!! feels like we live in the same small village :)
walk around your neighborhood until your cheeks and nose are all cold and red!! you’re alive! the cup of tea you make when you get back inside will be the coziest cup of tea ever!!!