Is your opinion or hot take providing any clarity or enriching anyoneās life? Or is it simply providing a piece of supporting evidence to assert someone elseās insecurities, toxic behaviors and thought patterns? Maybe itās time to try shutting the fuck up. ā®ļø
for all the glorification of āyappingā there is also something to be said for just not speaking. very often your best course of action is to just shut the fuck up. you gotta become okay with the idea of āsitting this one out,ā playing your cards close to your chest, moving in silence like lasagna, etc etc loose lips sink ships!!!!
I donāt mean this in a letās enforce toxic positivity way. And maybe this sounds simple and obvious but Iāve learned from my own experience and observations that it can be off-putting to others to always be complaining, criticizing, or saying negative things! It can really bring the energy down whether itās in interactions with close friends, significant others, family, coworkers, dates, or strangers and it doesnāt make people feel good. This isnāt to say that you should never have critical thoughts, engage in difficult conversations, or share your heavy emotions with people you trust. but I think this is something people can do without even realizing itās a pattern for them and it has an effect on your own psyche as well imoā¦ and it feels great to bring a little light into someoneās day š¦ļø
