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FINALLY SEEING YOUR FRIENDS IN A DIFFERENT CITY

just booked tickets to go stay with a couple inter-city friends after we’d been talking about this for weeks the dopamine rush is insane

@tchotchke_soup

Apr 13, 2025

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Making plans for the future to have something to look forward to

My friends and I are going to LA for Slide Away Fest in May so I must continue on despite the horrors 🥲💛👍🏻

@sillygirltypebeat

Jan 22, 2025

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I think this is more how i went about it emotionally and Mentally but

maybe in the end it was just going, but i think i had always known that i wanted to leave the state i lived in but there were some fears in it to. I think mainly i made sure i had a place of residence to move to, a commitment to move. I flew to the place to get vibes of the town of the building id be living in before signing anything, then i spent the next few months packing, donating, picking up extra shifts, etc. I planned out my route as i would be driving a long way to get there, made sure i had enough money plus extra in case anything emergency arose. I spent about a week making the longest playlist to listen to. When the day came to move it was a bit bitter sweet. I knew new adventures awaited me, i knew the town that i grew up it gave me all it had to offer and i bled it dry and staying would only get me so far. It took awhile to adjust to the new home, new town, new people, but after a couple of months you eventually find that one take out restaurant you like and become a regular, you start to find your ideal grocery stores, you become friends with the people you work with even if for the then next few months you're only friends at work, holidays come up and it'll surprise you how human some people are and you'll fet invited to a work dinner or simply a dinner with a coworker and then you've made your first official friend. I could go on but I think it comes down to making sure you are ready, you have some safetys set up incase something gose wrong, always do research then just take the step and next thing you know you'll be in your new home

@confused_crisis

Mar 30, 2025

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bless the telephone

best song

@baileythevampireslayer

Feb 18, 2024

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hamzah

so down bad for this man, probably the most intense celeb or celeb-adjacent crush i‘ve ever had… (in a similar vein, andy samberg and the lead singer of laundry day)

@baileythevampireslayer

May 3, 2024

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going to the movies!

i’ve been to three movies in three days, both alone and with pals. makes me feel like nicole kidman doing her amc monologue. or beck bennet as vin diesel in that one snl sketch. truly my happy place.

@baileythevampireslayer

Feb 23, 2024