This is the first crossroads into actual intimacy on a date. Don’t even have to say anything. If they’re cute, just look at them and enjoy the hell out of the present moment. You’re either gonna find that moment together in pheromones and smiles or they’re gonna ask for the check. Either way is better than telling someone how many sibilings you have
Nothing better than wearing a perfect outfit and walking past another perfectly dressed person, and you share a long up and down look - with intimate, mysterious, eye contact.
You‘re both truly bonded in that moment.
having the freedom to be entirely yourself around new people and feeling all flirty and hot is so fun. Someone just made me fudge for our first date and it’s so nice. i just love meeting new people.. especially when there is sexual undertones. it makes it so much more exciting and interesting
Phone (low power mode)
Keys (car is totaled so only house key) Wallet (no cash except some Colombian pesos) Walking to the cafe like literally anything could happen (there’s a double rainbow in the sky)
I got laid off 2 years ago and had to rebuild my resume as a designer. Design jobs average from 100-500 applicants. Insane saturation, so I knew I needed to find a side hustle to help me be patient while looking for the right job. I found that working the early shift at a coffee shop was a great help for me. It wasn’t a side hustle that took too much energy away for me, and I was able to finish my work day around 1pm. Allowed me to slowly and methodically apply for jobs I really cared about instead of thrashing in the wind. I’ve seen that passive income takes a tonnnn of energy and investment to really get off the ground. So it might be worth skipping that unless you’re particularly passionate about your endeavor. Good luck! Be patient! Don’t be afraid to spend a little extra $ and buy French toast for breakfast sometimes. You’re gonna get a win.