Honestly saved me so many time and anxiety. Much like planner you check it often and make sure to add things that interests you or things with friends. Most important of all I learned to trust all the past version of me to the point where nothing on my calendar is bad. (You can also make note to add how important or skippable it is )
Feb 26, 2024
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this sounds lame but hear me out. i was recently thinking about how ive been very stressed and when i am stressed i dont make time to do the things i like. like recently i havenāt been watching as many movies as i was in the summer. so i added a movie into my calendar for sunday. now i have almost guaranteed that i will watch a movie bc i love following my calendar. i was also worried that i would double book myself a lot this halloween so i was worried to say yes to things. but then i put all the parties in my calendar and now i can keep them straight in my head.
i love productivity apps and organization and notion and lists.
Oct 23, 2024
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Itās good for remembering doctorās appointments but also friendsā birthdays and for noting events Iām looking forward to, like a movie release. Even better when you add related emojis.
Apr 17, 2024
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iāve always felt soooo bogged down by any kind of scheduled events in my life, even if itās something fun that i should theoretically look forward to. call it ADHD, PDA autism, idk- but to mitigate this dread i find it helpful to write everything down in an online planner (use whatever system works for you). some tips:
1. writing down every little thing enables me to see it all in one place and not worry that thereās something else iāve forgotten about. knowing i have even just one or two things coming up can feel overwhelming but as soon as i can actually see each item in front of me, it feels a lot less daunting.
2. looking at my schedule every morning helps me mentally prepare for the day
3. i used to spend so much energy thinking about an upcoming activity for the entire day leading up to it because i didnāt want to accidentally forget about it. now, i set alarms for when i need to start preparing for an activity- that way i can put it out of my mind until i actually need to start thinking about it.
i know some people feel really burdened by planners/calendars (i refused for the longest time because i like spontaneity and not feeling tied down) but just give it a try and seeee
Aug 1, 2024
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Do I find myself being a reply guy sometimes? Yes.
Does it brings me joy whenever my friends or someone unexpected replied to my stories? Yes.
Would you still reply to their stuff if you genuinely donāt give a shit and they uninterest you but not to the level you mute their content? No.
So why not? We talk down ourselves so often let me lift you up , one āhell yeahā āLFGā at a time
Sep 23, 2024
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Canāt be condescending and judgmental if you arenāt productive and getting shit done. so hop to it little hater
May 23, 2024
Thereās something special and beautiful about documenting the moment your friends shine the most. When theyāre pouring their heart and soul making something a reality for them and youāre there to capture every moment around them.
Feb 2, 2024