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Trauma bonding
Past few dates people have been opening up to me about their trauma/family dynamics/deep shame and it hasn’t been weird at all, I’m just here to listen and maybe share something in return and be a comfort. it’s kinda surprising for a first date but it kinda levels the atmosphere and breaks the ice super quick and let’s you see the complexities of who’s sitting before you
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@devonrussell
Mar 4, 2024
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