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doesn't matter what you pick just stick with it

i big big big hate making decisions and stress that whatever i pick will be the wrong choice, but i have found that the more i decide internally to just commit to whichever choice, i try to let go and let the universe take it from there. until time travel is invented, no one can go back in time and change their decisions so there is no point in considering what another option would have been like. it's just an exercise in misery that is best avoided. do what feels good and don't look back.

@ktrnaa

Oct 22, 2024

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picture yourself having made the decision in either direction, imagine the outcomes, then observe: where do you have the most peace?

(also, if possible: ask people you trust—who don't gain or lose from your choice—what they think)

@mattshawsome

Apr 2, 2025

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Recommend MAKING DECISIONS THAT Is best for yourself + those you love even if it is DIFFICULT + painfully uncomfortable.

It’s much better than making the simple but destructive- possibly irreparable - one.

@amyarlesa

Feb 21, 2024

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being committed to your favorite color

full of admiration for the woman i saw outside the grocery store this afternoon

@notebook

Mar 21, 2024

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Something to look forward to every morning

Find a coffee creamer you really love, or a breakfast that was your favorite when you were a kid, read a rly good book or article you’ve been excited abt for ten min when you wake up instead of social media, lay out a cute outfit the night before, plan what perfume & jewelry you’ll wear if you’re into that

@notebook

Mar 16, 2024

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Making pancakes with my friends

And eating them with butter and crunchy nutella and strawberries

@notebook

Feb 4, 2024