by my mom. she’s been through a lot (war, cancer, etc) and she’s so right about this. like bad shit will happen regardless (which sounds depressing) but you just have to roll with it cause you can’t get out of it. a close second is “there are no impossible situations, only a lack of faith”. she just says shit like this on a random tuesday ft call and im like. bet.
Mar 26, 2024
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This mindset has honestly saved me from ending it all I’m being dead serious. knowing a lot of situations are out of your hands and all you can do is just ride it out or move on, it is what it is. Sometimes you just got to thug it out. Just remind yourself you have done all you could have and that’s what matters at the end of the day.
Mar 12, 2025
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There’s two phrases I live by:
1. “Prepare for the worst, hope for the best” it’s something my father has said to me ever since I can remember anything at all. He says we must always be aware of the possibility of error and be prepared for it however we should never stop believing in the possibility of success and always stay hopeful!
2. “this too shall pass” it’s just a good way of remembering that what now can seem like the end of the world will end up feeling just like a medium sized problem in a few months and eventually it will feel like nothing in a few years. All problems are valid problems however you must remember that time can heal all wounds.
Mar 26, 2024
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it‘s a cliche for sure, but in recent years i have become a big believer in every event, good or bad, having some sort of purpose, whether it be a big or little one. i guess this helps me to stay content in the moment because it reminds me that, “hey! i know you might be upset about this thing right now, but it’ll work out. you just have to let it.” i am a big time worrier, and i always want to control situations as much as i can, but i have found that if i just let them play out, they’ll go the way they were meant to. (and if it’s not in a good way, at least it’s a good story).
and, honestly, it helps me just remembering what a miracle it is to be alive at all; to have the blessing of living at the same time as the people i love; to feel the sun shine on my face in that very moment. we are so small in the grand scheme of things, but here we are!!! how wonderful is that!!!
it’s like in ”vienna”: “slow down, you’re doing fine, you can’t be everything you wanna be before your time.”
Sep 24, 2024
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wear your shoes till the soles come off. you don’t need a new shirt. STOP mindlessly consuming things!!! enough!!! go sit outside for 10 minutes and think about if you are actually lacking anything material in your life (you’re probably not). if you do need new things have a thing-exchange with your friends it’s so fun! stop falling victim to overconsumption
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LITERALLY BANGER 👏AFTER BANGER 👏AFTER BANGER👏 !!!! like even the sadder ones. charcoal baby??? minetta creek!!!! nappy wonder???? s’cooled???? champagne coast🫣 WOW WOW WOW
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