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Love how my roommates/bffs and I now sort of have a secret language, a specific lingo if you will. I read an article about how small groups/communities start to unknowingly build their own specific “societies”/cultures through just being together so often. I love how that just happens naturally; connection is what we are all here/made for! I also like seeing others’ friendship ecosystems it is so cute and cool!!
Apr 6, 2024
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I love basing my friendships around things I like to do, and having an allocated person to do that with, also having a process / routine that this thing happens around. Like a tiny religious procession of two.
E.g. : one friend is my coffee and a walk friend, another is a person I only exclusively hang out with to eat tacos once a month, a third friend to only go to cinema screenings with, another friend will join me for exercise classes and we usually get dinner afterwards.
I like this approach to friendship in general because it’s less pressure to have to come up with new things to do, and if you stagger time well then you always have things to do and people to see.
Aug 20, 2024
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I love when two people I love meet each other and like each other and then we can all hang out together
Jun 3, 2025
The other day my buddy texted me and asked if I wanted to come over and make action figure dioramas. I was like uh hell yeah are you kidding that sounds like itd be fucking awesome. and guess what? We have spent every night since working on it, posted up in his garage with so much cardboard and paint fumes. I think it's pretty badass! We decided on making a battle scene set in New York, so we started with some buildings to act as hubs to build the rest of the street around, him with his apartments, and me with my bodega.We've been rewatching the MCU, listening to new music, and just talking about our friendship. I really appreciate him. The thing is, we haven't known each other as long as the others, but we've become like brothers. like we just get on each others nerves like siblings, but we also still come back together like brothers. And that's really helped me become more secure in myself strangely, because I think he understands me better than I understand myself, and through various jokes and conversations, he's able to call me on my bullshit and make me more aware and by all of that, it helps me understand myself and improve, if that makes sense.
He's just a really good guy! I trust him with my life! And these past few fays have just been like, childhood wish fulfillmen. I never really had friends as a kid that I could do this kinda stuff with, not many people to geek out about this stuff with, nobody was staying up late with me. So this has been really cathartic for me. I've made a bodega, a subway entrance, some miscellaneous city props, just like, really in the zone. And it's been nice to bounce ideas off each other because we're both so excited about this that there's only positive feedback and collaboration, no stressing, no stepping on each others toes.
Idk, it feels really nice to have had these last few days be this little place I can go to. included: pictures of my friend's destroyed apartment building, and my bodega (unfinished)
Jun 3, 2025
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i have a nice spot on campus under an arched outdoor hallway where i eat my food truck meals in between classes. its lovely in sunny weather but also a nice shelter in the rain or snow. i also enjoy the seclusion it provides, since i do not like to be seen eating by strangers. basically it's a choice and a necessary precaution.
Jan 24, 2024
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Jan 26, 2024
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my dad who is an obsessive audiophile gifted me nice big speakers for my apartment and now all i want to do is listen to my favorite tunes in the living room. i understand why my dad spends all his time in his sound room now. my roommates also love it and now we can rival the speakers of the frat boys who live below us.
Jan 24, 2024