Heeled little ankle boots/low-cut booties and big black sunglasses. Maybe a blazer with the sleeves rolled up or a big camo scarf wrapped around my arms leaving my shoulders exposed. slouchy beige allsaints mini tote. Black dress black sheer tights and black platform Mary Janes with a chunky block heel if I have somewhere to go
Apr 11, 2024
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Or something black sheer and lacy with a high neck or mock neck… black velvet or leather/faux leather high waisted pants, silky joggers, or weirdly I think black track pants with the white line down the leg could be cool lol… maybe a black leather or velvet mini skirt or shorts with the sheer top and black sheer tights. And like black patent oxford shoes or platform loafers or a heeled combat boot…
Jun 5, 2024
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big hair, statement earrings, aromatics elixir, a good brown lip liner smudged on cupid’s bow and lower lash line, dark jeans, navy cable knit sweater, trench coat, powder pink loafers
Dec 15, 2023
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wide pants are the obvious thing. jeans, chinos, fatigues, double knees, whatever. I'm also a fan of Needles' big track pants.
A big shirt can certainly work, but try big, high rise pants, with a small shirt / tee / sweater tucked in, and then layer a big coat over that that's on the longer side — a chunky bomber, a thrifted overcoat, whatever you're into. the long coat + high rise pant creates two different horizontal lines, so you get the proportion benefits of both—your legs look long but your torso doesn't look short.
then, you can go in a lot of different directions with the shoes. hiker-sneakers, chunky loafers, funky boots, weird mules, paraboot michaels, those 3sixteen sidezips, anything from yuketen...
Feb 8, 2024
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My dad teases me about how when I was a little kid, my favorite thing to do when I was on the landline phone with somebody—be it a relative or one of my best friends—was to breathlessly describe the things that were in my bedroom so that they could have a mental picture of everything I loved and chose to surround myself with, and where I sat at that moment in time. Perfectly Imperfect reminds me of that so thanks for always listening and for sharing with me too 💌
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I’ve been thinking about how much of social media is centered around curating our self-image. When selfies first became popular, they were dismissed as vain and vapid—a critique often rooted in misogyny—but now, the way we craft our online selves feels more like creating monuments.
We try to signal our individuality, hoping to be seen and understood, but ironically, I think this widens the gap between how others perceive us and who we really are. Instead of fostering connection, it can invite projection and misinterpretation—preconceived notions, prefab labels, and stereotypes. Worse, individuality has become branded and commodified, reducing our identities to products for others to consume.
On most platforms, validation often comes from how well you can curate and present your image—selfies, aesthetic branding, and lifestyle content tend to dominate. High engagement is tied to visibility, not necessarily depth or substance. But I think spaces like PI.FYI show that there’s another way: where connection is built on shared ideas, tastes, and interests rather than surface-level content. It’s refreshing to be part of a community that values thoughts over optics.
By sharing so few images of myself, I’ve found that it gives others room to focus on my ideas and voice. When I do share an image, it feels intentional—something that contributes to the story I want to tell rather than defining it. Sharing less allows me to express who I am beyond appearance.
For women, especially, sharing less can be a radical act in a world where the default is to objectify ourselves. It resists the pressure to center appearance, focusing instead on what truly matters: our thoughts, voices, and authenticity. I’ve posted a handful of pictures of myself in 2,500 posts because I care more about showing who I am than how I look.
In trying to be seen, are we making it harder for others to truly know us? It’s a question worth considering.
Dec 27, 2024