Grab a friend and pick a color to follow on a walk and see where you end up. Maybe you pick hot pink -- then see it on a bus and walk in that direction — then someone with a backpack so you go that way. Following a color is such a fun way to stumble into places you’d maybe never tried or seen before
I have been sharing on my TikTok for 1+ year my holy grails that I’ve now launched on substack! I struggle with decision fatigue but also am adhd with shopping as a hyperfocus. So I research everything like crazy! Wirecutter meets Reddit is my brain.
Ideally, I want to lock in my holy grails in boring life categories (decided on others like water glasses, silverwear, cashmere sweaters) so I don’t have decide anymore and I can get back to living and shop on top for style and design and desire. Currently have a notion doc for my holy grail white tee which is taking some time lol I’m sharing it all on substack and have quite a few up on TikTok so if it intrests you would love to connect and learn about your holy grails too 💕 xoxo neurodivergent
