in: biking / moisturizing sunscreen / having multiple sunglasses / dave brubeck / falling for romance
out: beer / john summit / malaise / shopping at target / not finding fun in every moment with your friends / vapes
Ins: not giving a fuck / festivals / vodka crans / biker shorts / tennis / taking things a day at a time / walks / good music / iced coffee / spontaneous trips to the beach / flirting / good reads / linen pants / little treats / coffee shops / yoga
out: exes/ negativity / hard seltzer / staying at home moping / making excuses / Starbucks / rum / waiting around for people who aren't prioritizing you / skirts
In: rollerblading / making hooch / putting on a play with your friends / bikini top as a shirt / scene hair / swing sets / crying in a cathartic way / Noise music in a girly way / Home Depot / tearing things apart to build them back better / balloons / chunky rings / hot dogs
Out: nicotine / love triangles / shoes that pinch your toes / rotting / observing the world without also absorbing it / being a hater / cheap wine / parties centered around alcohol / impossible burgers / stoicism / complex skincare / emails
IN: camping with the girls / chilled corn soup / biking to work hairdo be damned / harmonica in the grass / tai chi / learning new braids / kickball at the park / getting that dumb little tattoo youβve been thinking abt
OUT: βitβs so hotβ as conversation / hard seltzers / fear of bees / painted toenails / cheap swimsuits / kicking the can / avoiding eye contact / basset hound drool
iβm going to a party tonight where I know maybe 2 people. put my best fit on, including big pants, gonna absolutely tear it up. social butterfly style.