but just you have to accept it. i was in a similar situation and as much as i felt like a stranger in my own body, i slowly got used to it. hair can feel very personal, and it is! youβre not melodramtic.
i got my hair cut on a friday (arguably the best day of the week) and had to go to work right after (arguably the worst thing to do after a bad haircut). fully had a good ole cry before a team meeting. embrace the change, welcome the new era, remember youβre a hottie no matter your hair (ββΏβ)!!
i got violated at the barbershop and it has thrust me into a state of reflection. a lot of my mental has been anger and terror because my hair has been fucked up but otherwise this has given me the freedom to feel like i can finally change my hair from what iβve had for years.
did this most recently after a breakup it's very healing.. sometimes change on the inside needs 2 be reflected by change on the outside & also i don't have the patience for giving myself a whole new haircut when im sad!!!
got me giddy as hell packing my bags and picking up my sweet little treats weβre gonna spend the night exchanging hot goss and our silly little secrets iβm over here kicking and swinging my little feet in anticipation this really this is a love letter to my girls. i love you and iβll see you sooonnnnnn {\_/}
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god sometimes, in the moment, it sucks. but 99.99% of the time i feel so much better after the fact. inspired by me having to recently take my own advice i give to my students about how to get more comfortable being uncomfortable.
