Everyone is unique so see what works for you. Try to meet lots of different people. You might be lonely sometimes and that's ok. Don't try to compete with everyone else.
Apr 21, 2024
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People are so different and diverse. And what is cultured and tapped in to one group is going to be irrelevant to another.
You'll be the most happy and free if you are able to resist all of those pressures toward grouplike and alignment. The pressures will be lifelong, though often with a different flavor than right now.
Although the safe thing is to get into that rudderless ship of alikeness with everyone else, the better thing is to love what you love, no apologies, with joy and passion. After a time, they'll come to you.
Feb 11, 2025
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Super cliched, but you should lean into who you are rather than moulding yourself for someone else, you're beautiful as you are. plus in the long run, you'll be surrounded by people who genuinely like your energy and hanging out with you and that's the whole point.
May 2, 2025
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it is so freeing to realize that people liking the same things as me/ being similar to me isnβt a threat and doesnβt take away from my uniqueness as an individual. connecting with others over shared interests is such a beautiful and necessary part of life.
if everyone had the same mindset that I used to have we would all just be super lonely!
Feb 2, 2024
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When it's finally warm enough to open those windows and let the spring air in, allergies be damned
Apr 6, 2025
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Something about getting into those fresh sheets that smell like laundry detergent just feels better
Aug 25, 2024
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If the voice in your head is being too mean ask it if it would talk to someone you love this way. My internal monologue can be a π© and this sometimes can help it be more constructive
Nov 13, 2024