there are truly so many flawless combos but rn i am craving a dill-y, chive-y, zingy, tuna sando with crisp celery and red onion, garlic dutch mayo, mustard on like a bed of lettuce OR skip the lettuce and make it a melt with some cheese on top.. all sandwiched by any soft but sturdy bread you can find !
chuck on some canned soup & make a sandwich while it does its thing. tuna, mayo, pepper, spring onion, maybe some red onion & celery & mushrooms, etc etc. if ur going tuna melt option u want some yummy cheese in there, and mayo on the outside of the bread instead of butter!!!!! fry until golden brown & structurally sound (thank u cheese) & then u dip that mf in the tomato soup and freaking eat it
lovely crusty bread (toasted)
mayo
thick slice of a big heirloom tomato (donāt forget to salt it!!!)
sunflower seeds (adds the yummiest crunch)
a big handful of fresh dill i found this sandwich on tiktok and havenāt looked back!! itās super simple and may not sound like much but itās sooo yummy
for like 5 minutes, it helps, promise! you can wash ur hands right after and youāll find it wasnāt the end of the world when you got a little dirty for those 5 minutes, as uncomfortable as it was. and for all the discomfort, your brain switched off and you could just be with the old, familiar sensations of your youth. get lost in it!
i could never understand why i lacked the tools to distance myself from people who hurt me and kept hurting me. iād always go back, iād always āforgive,ā and iād always fawn (try and be better because itās obviously my fault i wasnāt perfect, duh.) . there has been a recent shift in my life where i will feel physically angry when iām subjected to mistreatment. sometimes iāll put it aside in favor of my fears but sometimes i feel it and let it be.. and when i do, i find i have the power to uphold simple boundaries that protect me from the mistreatment. itās the darndest thing (would you believe it if i said iām black?)