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thinking you are over an ex and then looking at their instagram and seeing something that makes you want to crawl into a hole and die

never gets old

@laurahday

Feb 8, 2024

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Getting over your ex

Hopefully you’re not just over them but you recognise for yourself what everybody else understands intuitively after meeting them once

@heidegirl

Feb 5, 2024

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staying friends w ur ex (if healthy)

thoroughly planning a breakup so that you end that chapter with empathy and understanding instead of with anger and resentment in the heat of emotions. makes moving on and forward in life so much easier. now also have a best friend who has seen me at my lowest and with whom i can share most every experience without judgement. only applicable if this individual is healthy enough to keep in ur life.

@slut

Dec 3, 2024

Top Recs from @shooting_star

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play with dirt. swirl sand around with your feet. scrape a bunch of damp soil with your bare hands and sift through it, study It, Smell it, throw it

for like 5 minutes, it helps, promise! you can wash ur hands right after and you’ll find it wasn’t the end of the world when you got a little dirty for those 5 minutes, as uncomfortable as it was. and for all the discomfort, your brain switched off and you could just be with the old, familiar sensations of your youth. get lost in it!

@shooting_star

Apr 23, 2024

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mayonnaise

you’re familiar with hellmann’s, you’ve obsessed over kewpie but have you tried dutch mayo? i truly believe it would sway the staunchest of hater’s hearts into the loving arms of mayonnaise. so tangy, so sweet, so delicious. like i would have it as the sole condiment on my fries type good! calvé is my go-to brand! zaanse & remia are other well known brands!

@shooting_star

Apr 22, 2024

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anger: ACTUALLY a pretty neat emotion that helps you preserve boundaries & self respect

i could never understand why i lacked the tools to distance myself from people who hurt me and kept hurting me. i’d always go back, i’d always “forgive,” and i’d always fawn (try and be better because it’s obviously my fault i wasn’t perfect, duh.) . there has been a recent shift in my life where i will feel physically angry when i’m subjected to mistreatment. sometimes i’ll put it aside in favor of my fears but sometimes i feel it and let it be.. and when i do, i find i have the power to uphold simple boundaries that protect me from the mistreatment. it’s the darndest thing (would you believe it if i said i’m black?)

@shooting_star

Apr 24, 2024