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setting boundaries with myself instead of others

Reframing boundaries as a way of holding myself accountable. Not setting boundaries with someone who knowingly may disappoint me. Instead establishing one with myself with the intention to assert my agency. This can also prevent the opportunity for me to potentially shift blame onto someone who is not responsible for my own actions. (Note: this is NOT applicable in every instance. boundaries are important and can be enforced however necessary! this is my own personal reflection)

@bears

Dec 30, 2023

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setting boundaries

Do it! Say no! It’s hard but things do not depend on you as much as you’re thinking they might! It’s not that serious. Disappoint people. Stay home. Ignore messages. Do what you wanna do

@padovan

Feb 8, 2024

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Telling people no

if you grew up being a people pleaser like me, it can be so damn hard to set boundaries. but it was so great when I finally realized I simply didn’t have to say yes to everything/everyone. it was wild. blew my mind. I highly recommend.

@rizkillla

Aug 8, 2024

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fountain pens

its so fun. theres so many types. abundant cheap options to get into. i recommend looking at jet pens website for both articles and pens you can buy. its a topic with tons of history, but is still modern and active. i have a kaweco aluminum sport which is my favorite but i also love the lamy safaris. could go on for hours about this lovely invention

@rodeoshrimp

Apr 15, 2024

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summers over

jordana, tv girl

@rodeoshrimp

Aug 16, 2024

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birthdays are hard

it’s such a awkward marker of a new year. a weird mix of wanting people to celebrate you, but feeling tired of the obligation to thank everyone that only reaches out once a year. i always find birthdays really hard, and fairly disappointing. my recommendation is to give yourself grace, and do what makes you happy. i know it’s such a generic rec but this past year on the actual day i just took it easy, treated myself to some takeout, and watched a show in bed. a few days after i got together with friends and we went to a restaurant i love but they’d never really wanted to go to. and then we ate homemade cake and watched a movie. sorry if this isn’t a very upbeat response (: <3 happy birthday!! and know random people on the internet are celebrating you (:

@rodeoshrimp

Jul 30, 2024