But I don’t wear pants (IN THE AMERICAN ENGLISH SENSE I haven’t gone full Winnie the Pooh) at home i just put them on when I’m going outside or if I’m doing a video meeting… about 50% of Americans were the same in 2020 but I guess that was when we collectively gave up as a society. Having been a work-from-home warrior for many years I was pantsless at home before and I’ll continue to be pantsless at home in the future. During the day I wear cotton t-shirts or tank tops and usually some kind of cotton hoodie or sweater on top of that; at night I wear a silk nightgown
May 7, 2024
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I wake up, I put on jeans.
Can’t prove it but I think a lot of the cultural issues that plague us as a society stem from the covid era remote work situation where people thought it was okay to wear sweatpants all day. This is EVIL and also the reason why no one likes you. Put on jeans and thrive. Don‘t be lazy.
Mar 13, 2025
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i’m from the uk so this confused me so much for a minute 😭 ik this is probably getting old now but it’s still funny cause i genuinely got mixed up like would u not put ur pants (underwear) on first??? 🤨
anyway for me it’s always socks last never on before jeans and it usually goes shirt then jeans then socks
Apr 6, 2025
In actuality though, I don’t think you can go wrong with a good fitting set of jeans and T-shirt. I pretty much am always wearing some kind of combination. This particular one is because I am going to work today (I already had to change because my daughter got this one dirty). If I wasn’t working, it would probably be cropped jeans and a graphic tee of some sort.
It feels confessional to share that I have never considered myself to be stylish. I just want comfort and mobility. Ya girls gotta move!!!
Mar 26, 2025
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My dad teases me about how when I was a little kid, my favorite thing to do when I was on the landline phone with somebody—be it a relative or one of my best friends—was to breathlessly describe the things that were in my bedroom so that they could have a mental picture of everything I loved and chose to surround myself with, and where I sat at that moment in time. Perfectly Imperfect reminds me of that so thanks for always listening and for sharing with me too 💌
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I’ve been thinking about how much of social media is centered around curating our self-image. When selfies first became popular, they were dismissed as vain and vapid—a critique often rooted in misogyny—but now, the way we craft our online selves feels more like creating monuments.
We try to signal our individuality, hoping to be seen and understood, but ironically, I think this widens the gap between how others perceive us and who we really are. Instead of fostering connection, it can invite projection and misinterpretation—preconceived notions, prefab labels, and stereotypes. Worse, individuality has become branded and commodified, reducing our identities to products for others to consume.
On most platforms, validation often comes from how well you can curate and present your image—selfies, aesthetic branding, and lifestyle content tend to dominate. High engagement is tied to visibility, not necessarily depth or substance. But I think spaces like PI.FYI show that there’s another way: where connection is built on shared ideas, tastes, and interests rather than surface-level content. It’s refreshing to be part of a community that values thoughts over optics.
By sharing so few images of myself, I’ve found that it gives others room to focus on my ideas and voice. When I do share an image, it feels intentional—something that contributes to the story I want to tell rather than defining it. Sharing less allows me to express who I am beyond appearance.
For women, especially, sharing less can be a radical act in a world where the default is to objectify ourselves. It resists the pressure to center appearance, focusing instead on what truly matters: our thoughts, voices, and authenticity. I’ve posted a handful of pictures of myself in 2,500 posts because I care more about showing who I am than how I look.
In trying to be seen, are we making it harder for others to truly know us? It’s a question worth considering.
Dec 27, 2024