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Its silly goofy if I meet someone that lives/is from a city or area someone I know is from I WILL assume that y’all know each other
Makes me feel like an old person being shown a pic from ig going “oh is that a friend you met at school?”
I think it’s cause I grew up in an area where families were BIG and there was always an inevitable great aunt that used to babysit my best friends younger 2nd cousin kinda thing
It’s allllllllll connected somehow 🌝
May 24, 2024
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came home for christmas and saw my friends i grew up with. i don’t know if we met today if we’d be friends because we’re in such different stages of life BUT there is something so comforting about how they would know where the glasses are kept in your house and who you fancied in year 10 and what your dad likes to do on a sunday and so many little pieces that make you who you are today. big up home town friends
Dec 23, 2024
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i know they can understand me on a different level & it makes them so much more approachable. if we share developmental lore i can feel way more comfortable with them. sometimes you just know that you would have been great friends with someone if you'd both met earlier in your timelines, and that endears me to someone a lot.
Jul 11, 2024
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it’s a different kind of trust and feels like i’m getting a good friend badge—does that make sense?
bonus point: you show up and they already know about you, like your friends really did prep them and like/trust you that much!
Aug 29, 2024
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In this regard, to what I like to call a funk.
I feel très dookie. Lots of change in my life, and in times of instability I tend to fall off the horse- in a major way. Like many ppl. This past go round I have been excessively hard on myself over my general lacking in… well almost everything. Ive come to the conclusion that there are times you have to give yourself more grace than you’d like to. Maybe the pity party can last a couple more days than usual. I won’t go into details, bc as those of you reading who have dealt with mental health struggles, it can be sort of gross. Sure. There’s a ton I could be doing to put an end to my funk. Make more of an effort to dig myself out of the hole. But, at the end of the day I know I will come out of the funk in my own time. Faking myself out, and convincing myself I’m feeling better serves no one.
Making yourself feel worse over feeling bad in the first place is just wildly counterproductive. Just keep moving forward in time. There’s a lot of it <3
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