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Clarifies feelings and desires. Also reduces crush anxiety/shame? Also lets you imagine feeling hot and cool and smooth for real. I find it scary and embarrassing but crushes are scary and embarrassing. Crush more, it might go well or bad but damnit sometimes it's so satisfying to feeeeelll
Currently crushing if that's not clear oyyyyy
Jun 20, 2024
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most energizing thing ever but also dangerous how delusional it makes you
Feb 11, 2024
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It's a lack of information, and I find them cathartic, it's a fun surprise when you realise you can continue to have crushes, and also it teaches you about your preferences, and maybe even how they've changed.
If lucky, it can also become a great friendship, or a light love for days, months, years...
Nov 16, 2024
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so nice to have a lil crush:
- getting texts and double texts from them
- making plans to hang out and doing things together
- asking each other lots of questions
- โwe should go get dinner afterwardsโ
- walking home together
- making eye contact and smiling
- they show you things on their phone and they get a little close to you
- not telling them youre crushing
- wondering if they feel the same and yet not worrying about it
- enjoying yourself
Dec 31, 2024
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My friend and I happened upon this. Meaning, strive to live your life in a way that makes you feel hot. Dress to feel hot. Talk to feel hot. Do whatever you do, but in a way that makes you feel like you're worthy of the love and adoration and crushes and desire you deserve. This does not mean "sexy" necessarily--hotness is always shifting and has many forms. But reach deep inside and you'll find that your own personal method and mode of hotness can always, and most of the time is, an excellent guide.
Jun 8, 2024
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tough but worth it
Feb 25, 2025
Kind of a genre of medieval paintings, but confirms to me how horny people have always been and how we've always had to sublimate our desires into the dominant culture. It's so weirdly explicit and bizarre, and has so many layers in how it would have been used: a painting to look at, a page in a prayer book to speak as a script, a physical object to touch and venerate and meditate with.... like imagine people fingering this "wound" and being like, yes this is honestly totally about jesus. Crazy.
Aug 2, 2024