It occurs to me... that the posts I most connect with are ones where people unfurl their weirdo habits, values, inner lives (i love the "crush" genre of pi posts), ways of living, likes, dislikes, life philosophical points of view etc. I do treasure proper recs with an object, i.e. a new record or book or 8 hour youtube video, but I find myself really moved when someone shares how they live a good life. appreciating!!
you can tell them anything like it’s the best day of your life or that it’s the worst day of your life or that you’re falling in love or into debt and they really cannot do much with that info! it’s good to air it out and you don’t have to worry about your truth. also their reactions can be priceless