I’ve watched this movie maybe 100 times. Oddly enough, it became my comfort film and I would watch clips from it in the car or in bed at very low points. I think as someone who has had deep discomfort with things like healthy relationships and being normal/the darkness inside of them, I really felt such a pull to this movie and I saw it as aspirational for someone like me. I don’t think it defined me as much as it pulled out parts of me that I was trying to come to terms with in my own ways
