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i used to be of a certain opinion that you should people watch and gossip as a way to destress, but i think there’s a ricochet effect bc even tho it’s cathartic in the moment you become more paranoid about people gossiping about you. just watching people and enjoying their vibe has in fact changed my life: to see others enjoy is joy. people talk about being at peace with nature but being at peace with your environment people and all is so much better.
Aug 30, 2024
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but like, not creepy? just sitting in a public space and enjoying everybody move around in their own lives rules
Feb 28, 2024
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I've realized I'm a good listener because people sometimes tell me things without me even asking, but I find it beautiful. I also enjoy gossiping. Like it's so sacred when people tell me their secrets. I feel like that girl from the movie Little Secrets (2001). It's a skill I cherish a lot.
Jan 2, 2025
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i’ve always felt so comfortable being loud and being seen and being the center of attention. but damn... shutting up and genuinely listening to what everyone around you has to say is really awesome. you learn so much about who people truly are, rather than who they tell you they are.
Jan 26, 2024
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if you think you’re the smartest person in your friend group you’re weird and annoying. the best friendships come out of mutual awe and respectability. be friends with people who make you want to know more things.
Jan 29, 2024
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i will never be in a situationship in the same way i will never be in the land of oz--it's just not real. i think using the word doesn't let you self-reflect in a way that is truly helpful. i was telling my friend about the awkwardness of seeing an exhook up in a relationship bc i thought we had mutual feelings and she said "oh your exsituationship" and i thought (for the first time) no, we had clear boundaries i just got my hopes up. my point is that instead of using situationship as a catch-all for not quite dating or wtv failed prospect, take it as a moment to reflect on what exactly went wrong. idk if this is profound or not
Jan 30, 2025
i’m averaging 14,000 steps a day for the past year, why? i walk everywhere. at one point i was averaging 16,000 (this is my flex). you get to explore a city and now when people ask me for directions i can actually tell them bc i’ve gotten really good at knowing where i am. if it takes less than an hour for me to walk from a to b, i will walk. if i have enough time i’ll walk 2+ hours just to see someone. just put on a good playlist/pod and go go go!!
Jan 29, 2024