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I try to make my time after work valuable

Exercise or restorative/yin yoga, playing with my dog, writing, watching a movie (The Piano Teacher tonight for an upcoming sexy femcel movies/not at all sexy sexy movies episode of my podcast 🫦), reading, taking hot bubble baths, eating good food. I’m also a bit of a night owl with a flexible schedule so I start work at about 10:00 am and stay up pretty late…

@taterhole

Jan 16, 2025

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trying to set one up

it’s always a bit different and a bit the same, i’m trying to be consistent so this is what i do. work ends at around 5 p.m. so i’m home at 6. i usually get myself a little treat or go for a walk. then i walk my dog Freddie and then have tea with my family. then this is the part where i’m not so consistent. if i have a show i’m currently into i’ll forget about everything and just watch it until it‘s midnight. so i’m trying not to do that. at around ten i’ll have a shower and do my skincare and stuff. then i just go to bed, read or watch something, maybe meditate.

@deluxtoads

Sep 8, 2024

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Set the vibe

I work late so usually im going to bed as soon as i get home but I def don't want to go to bed with the vibe if the work evening still with me. Ive made a habit of getting a quick shower in to wash off the stress and in a clean pair of pajamas. I set up my evening YouTube video or a movie ive seen before-low stakes in terms of attention, its for background noise. Make some tea or make sure i at least have a glass of water and a small snack if i haven't eaten yet. Then I mosy my way to bed putting my dog to bed in his bed and take my cat upstairs to bed with me and get comfortable and kinda hope the sleep takes over in a timely manner.

@confused_crisis

Feb 27, 2025

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Starting over

“Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage.” — Anaïs Nin This is uncharacteristically raw and personal, even for me, and pretty heavy! I know many of you have seen me posting through it and I feel safe to talk about it openly now that I’ve safely landed at the start of my new life. It’s honestly even a little bit embarrassing but I think it’s important to share. I’ve never publicly mentioned it on here, but I have a husband; as of Friday, we’d have been together for 11 years, and we’ve been married for 3 years as of 2/22. I realize now that I wanted to explore what I looked like outside of my relationship with him because I had lost that. This is why PI.FYI has been so meaningful to me as a space to express myself and connect with people—to rediscover my voice. I had been living a lie this entire time, to others but worst of all to myself. He’s been verbally and emotionally abusive, physically but without touching me, to the point that every day I spent with him I was in danger. I’ve been shrinking myself and walking on eggshells to avoid making him insecure and provoking his casual put-downs and fits of rage, while hanging on for dear life to the threads of good I could see. I’ve wanted so badly to leave, more than anything, but I felt like there was no way out and that this was just something I would need to endure indefinitely—but someone who is so very dear to me helped me see that I have wings to fly, not by acting as my savior but by reminding me of my own power. The emotional safety they built and the gentle care they showed me made me feel like I could open up to them. With their encouragement I was brave enough to tell the truth to my friends, my family, my boss, and they have received me with warm, loving and open arms and rallied to support and protect me. The financial and  logistical aspects were the most intimidating to me and it’s going to be tough for a while but I’m going to be better than okay! Now I’m opening up to you. This isn’t the only abuse I’ve suffered in my life, and my old therapist told me she believed it was my mission to share my strength and light with others to inspire them and show them that change is possible. I hope that by sharing this, I can reach even just one person who is going through something similar and show that they are not alone, and they are not weak. People with certain backgrounds may be more vulnerable to abuse, but it can happen to anyone. It thrives in darkness, shame, and isolation—and breaking that silence is the first step toward freedom. Leaving is the scariest thing I have ever done but I have so many angels around me, and I am endlessly grateful. Thank you for being here with me 💌

@taterhole

Mar 16, 2025

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Never changing

My dad teases me about how when I was a little kid, my favorite thing to do when I was on the landline phone with somebody—be it a relative or one of my best friends—was to breathlessly describe the things that were in my bedroom so that they could have a mental picture of everything I loved and chose to surround myself with, and where I sat at that moment in time. Perfectly Imperfect reminds me of that so thanks for always listening and for sharing with me too 💌

@taterhole

Feb 23, 2025

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Finally Quitting the job that you hate

Schedule sent my resignation email for the morning, effective immediately ✅💅

@taterhole

Feb 27, 2025