according to my older sister i give really good advice, RAW advice (her words not mine), i suppose it mostly has to do with my blatant honesty and incapability of lying
i grew up as the youngest person in my family so i really didn’t feel the joy of responsibility and/or helping someone through something i’d experienced until i started having friends 1-2 years younger than me god i’m so good at giving advice
there have been several friends in my life who are older than me and have become like the older sister i’ve always wanted - such a special relationship not quite a mentor but still someone who can give you advice