allow yourself impulsive shopping! buying stupid shit just because you want it now helps with decision making because ultimately it’s not That Deep. you just have to teach yourself that doing something without thinking about it for a year and consulting all your friends and family is ok and nothing bad will happen
I'm a "when u know u know" typa gal... Once I make a decision in my head or get set on doing something I just have to do it and that's that. Nobody can tell me anything.... But if you're gonna be impulsive u have to stick to ur guns and stick to ur decisions u can't back track immediately cuz then ur just a lil coocoo
i've been seeing tiktoks of people asking their friends to pick them up from the airport/help moving and no one agrees. honestly what kind of a friend are you if you only care about doing fun stuff together and disappearing in the time of need. and honestly same goes for ignoring stuff in public like you see a woman carrying heavy bags and you just walk by? or when people don't offer their seats in transport for the elderly or sick? very strange to me. be kind to others personal boundaries are overrated