I also feel the pull to constantly reinvent myself. I feel like four or five characters mooshed together sometimes fighting for the right to express their personality.
It feels very powerful to say "I contain multitudes!" which is true for every person. That feels comforting and exciting.
I'm fine constantly expressing myself differently as long as I don't go out and buy an entire new wardrobe or all the materials for three new hobbies. I'm learning ways to express with my words and the way I carry myself and my outlook on life.
Oct 1, 2024
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Try things you want to try. Make friends with people who make you feel good about life. Life is limitless and so are you. Who you were yesterday and who youâll be tomorrow are different but theyâre all you! Nothing is ever set in stone so donât worry about finding exactly who you are right away. No one truly ever does you know! Put yourself out there and try things you want to try. It sounds like a lot of empty words but donât be too harsh on yourself in the process, youâre not just one thing or the other and you will constantly change. I wish you all the best xoxo
Apr 18, 2024
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Sit with every version of yourself. Find the lessons you need. The âgoodâ and âbadâ work as one! Be okay with those icky feelings and thoughts! They make youâŠyou!
Apr 29, 2024
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It would be hypocritical from me to say i donât follow trends, quite the opposite some of them can really be interesting and i âfollowâ them but i have no desire to fit in.
Everyday i embrace my soul, my heart and my mind because it took me years to be the Me of today and as an individual itâs totally normal to be unique in my own way.
I am unapologetically myself, no matter how much âtroubleâ it gets me with people i donât care. To be put in a box just to fit in or follow the ârulesâ was never something that i tolerated nor could handle.
I value self reliance and resent depending on someone
I am selective when it comes to socialising because i prefer being alone than having small talk
I question everything to be convinced before i accept it or do it
I am assertive, i express my needs, opinions and boundaries even if it means leading to a conflict with someone
I dont care about social pressure, i believe anyone can achieve anything at any age
I donât care about approval
I am always open to learn new stuff and never afraid to be seen as âuneducatedâ during the process
I donât wanna copy.
I am me, if i wanna read a kidâa book i will, if i wanna paint a tomato i will, if i wanna learn Russian i will, if i wanna wear a blazer with sweatpants because I think it looks good ON ME i WILL, me is ME and you is YOU.
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Jan 25, 2025
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It's Ranch. The cap comes off to hold change. Larger compartment in the back. Second pattern I've written and so proud
Apr 9, 2025
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For over a year I had the "world's tiniest ruggedized phone". I don't remember the brand but I bet you can google it. Regardless, I still found myself using Instagram and Facebook on the tiny little screen đ„Č. When they say social media is made to be addictive I fully believe it. App blockers, making my screen grey scale after 6pm, none of it works. I delete the settings, I remove the blocker.
The best things I've done for myself that is SO much easier said than done is 1. remove the thing from your life that you're trying to avoid and/or 2. Embrace the thing you're trying to avoid.
For me 1. Was a terrible job and 2. Was silence and boredom
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