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this is a really good time to try everything you’ve ever wanted to

my biggest regrets about uni are the things i didn’t do instead of things that i did - mostly being too self conscious to put myself out there and join clubs that went against my normal vibe or social groups, not taking more volunteer opportunities etc. university is really the last place you can try a bunch of things on for a size, so go for all of it - every course or sport or club or anything on campus that piques your interest, give it a shot. even if you’ve never done it before. and even if there’s nothing gained there, you learn a little more about yourself and what you’ll like moving forward as an adult!! also, try to get real experience in your field while you’re there! i wouldn’t worry about it too much in first year but keep it in mind for the coming ones. an internship, working with a professor, a position in some sort of club.. as much hands on experience as you possibly can is great for your resume since uni is all theory

@princess

Oct 3, 2024

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