my biggest two are- josh o’connor: he makes my heart so warm and is such a talented actor (great at playing a loser and/or asshole but not so good that he seems like one in real life) i love how he acts with his forehead.
hunter schafer: i think she is so smart and creative and beautiful and open minded and i think she should give me a chance. i also love her sense of personal style and knowledge of fashion!
Oct 10, 2024
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i have so many & will undoubtedly forget a few. so many beautiful people
Keanu: always & forever
Dante Basco: Rufiooooo
Paolo Montalban: MY Prince Charming
Drew Barrymore & Kirsten Dunst: my girls since childhood
Dev Patel, Steven Yeun, Riz Ahmed: all immensely talented & beautiful
Jack Black: specifically as Miles in The Holiday
Henry Golding: himbo
Tony Leung: timeless hottie with soulful eyes
Brit Marling: her SOUL
Zendaya (duh), Timothee Chalamet (unfortunately i am not immune), Justin H. Min, Manny Jacinto, Stephanie Hsu, Natalie Morales, Aubrey Plaza…
May 4, 2024
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I have a type and it is about to be illustrated:
- Keanu Reeves - i think we all know why
- Hozier - again, i think we all know why
- Assad Zaman - refer to the visual look of the above two, and you will know why, but he has such a lovely personality that I absolutely fell for
- Alexa Chung - i just, have always loved her personality and her style since I was a teen. Also she's cool. Just authentically herself, and therefore, COOL.
If any of them drew me a tattoo, I'd get it done. Or I might faint in their presence I'm not sure hahahahah
Oct 10, 2024
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olivia rodrigo and mary elizabeth winstead: dark-haired women with big eyes. awooooga. and O-Rod seems to be a rather emotionally unstable but sweet person. love her pisces ass!
brie larson: i find her cringe millennial nature to be endearing in a way.
young michael imperioli: i don’t care what anybody says about this one he’s genuinely a very good looking guy in the sopranos. and irl he seems very soft-spoken and thoughtful
May 4, 2024
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liking ur rec = saying hi when we go to get our morning papers from the end of our driveways (picture me doing so tony soprano style)
Aug 12, 2024
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she can’t see my bank account so it’s ok.
Mar 21, 2025
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started writing this a few hours ago when i first saw this ask, then decided against posting but i've since changed my mind. there really is no justification for it outside of entitlement. even from a selfish lens, there's no long term benefit to its usage. it harms the world and culture in more ways than one.
a.) the water and energy usage that isn't a secret at this point. "no ethical consumption under capitalism" yadda yadda and yeah corporations are extremely culpable in the state of the environment but there really is no need for chatgpt and the planet is already too delicate at the moment.
b.) the exploitation of workers in the global south. this program is not just a computer figuring it all out, there are in fact humans behind it. it reminds me of the acceptance of fast fashion and how people have the tendency to divorce the idea of the garment worker from the garment they wear when all clothing is handmade in some way, shape or form. you need hands to man a sewing machine, you need human eyes to moderate content. also, content moderation can be a thankless job with psychological repercussions.
c.) the erosion of social skills, humanity and media literacy...this one is very personal. like, you have a cushy email job but can't write an email? you need a computer and a worker in kenya to get paid a dollar an hour to figure out a daily routine for you? i've seen the program churn out blatantly incorrect information. fine tuning a prompt or chat or whatever to give you the exact (possibly incorrect) answer you need isn't really that much less work than sharpening your research skills by cracking open a dictionary or using boolean search keys in google. again, the main issue with this kind of stuff is the entitlement to convenience, with no thought towards the repercussions within and outside of us. we are losing major recipes (critical thinking and media literacy) here, people!
i probably did an iffy job are coherently articulating my thoughts here but i am in fact, human. and that’s the beauty of it all.
Oct 1, 2024