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going with spontaneous plans

As a chronic planner who needs to have things laid out AT LEAST a week beforehand, sometimes you need to let go of scheduling and say yes to going out and hanging with friends.

@juniperberry

Jun 23, 2024

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CANCELING PLANS WHEN YOU'RE TIRED and not feeling guilty about it

Didn't feel like going out tonight so canceled plans with my friend. They were fine with it and now I can just chill! Not feeling any guilt

@DAVEW

Feb 2, 2024

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WHEN PLANS ARE CANCELLED BEFORE YOU CAN CANCEL

Had plans to go swimming w friends today and really was thinking about dipping out.. so tired and not in swimming mood… woke up to a text the hang was cancelled!!!!! Love my friends so much and I hate cancelling on them but it allll worked out 😎😎😎

@ariascalling

3d ago

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IT'S *NEVER* TOO LATE

some people go their whole lives without experiencing something they want to do or allowing themselves to try something. the rules are made up. you are not too old for anything

@Shadowbeni

1d ago

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dancing

a study issued last month found that dancing is the most effective way of treating and mitigating depression. Walking, therapy, and yoga also outpaced SSRIs. and if you're saying 'oh this was probably funded by Big Dance', there's no evidence of that and if you're saying 'that's just what a Big Dance shill would say', well honey you're right

@Shadowbeni

Mar 4, 2024

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when you hear your friends’ work voice

Reminder that most of what we do is a performance

@Shadowbeni

Feb 24, 2025