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this is a phrase i saw on a sweatshirt someone was wearing at Gulbenkian park in Lisbon over the summer and i was like yo that is so me. whenever i have the tiniest inkling of a plan for the future or an idea for a project or a new crush i make sure to tell absolutely everyone i talk to. its 95% not a problem at all in my life.
like i‘ll go to a family gathering and tell everyone about how i’m going to go to some university or program i’m simply PLANNING to apply to or i’ll kiss someone once and then tell everyone i’m in love. and when these things don’t work out they fade into oblivion soooo quickly and no one remembers and if they do it’s like so funny and cute that i acted like it was a sure thing. honestly let’s say it’s 100% not a problem in my life because i truly do not care about any of these so called failures or even the concept of failure itself at all.
Nov 8, 2024
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🗣I used to hesitate to tell people my obscure interests. Heck it, unapologetically tell everyone about the things you love
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👍when people ask me about my job i‘m often tempted to launch into all of my frustrations, which sometimes i do
but sometimes i tell them, “it’s hard work, but i really love what i do” and it feels good to say!! i don’t have to self-flagellate for a stranger who just told me that they could “never” do what i do and make myself a martyr
i’m being honest but i‘m highlighting the best parts of my job instead of highlighting the worst parts—and i find myself a lot happier when i repeat this process for all aspects of my life
i love my partner, i love my pets, i love my city, i love my job. there are always things to complain about but there are also always things to celebrate
but sometimes i tell them, “it’s hard work, but i really love what i do” and it feels good to say!! i don’t have to self-flagellate for a stranger who just told me that they could “never” do what i do and make myself a martyr
i’m being honest but i‘m highlighting the best parts of my job instead of highlighting the worst parts—and i find myself a lot happier when i repeat this process for all aspects of my life
i love my partner, i love my pets, i love my city, i love my job. there are always things to complain about but there are also always things to celebrate
Dec 7, 2024
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🗣i love yapping. especially to my friends. share everything ! nonchalance and cultivating a mysterious aura is so middle school. i love talking about the small things, and the big ones too.
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just ask yourself that
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all you need is like 1-2 pages of text on paper, sometimes less. works every time. i used to swear by fiction but lately i’ve been reading a lot of “hard books” for example Concerning the spiritual in art by wassily kandinsky and Memories dreams reflections by carl jung and i think these work even better for sleepiness in the way they make me feel too stupid to be awake.
blue light from the phone/laptop etc will kill you