I know Iām never gonna change the mind of the person Iām arguing with I just use them as an outlet for my frustrations with consumerism and celebrity worship or whatever else. Then I stalk their profile and realize theyāre a 13 year old delusional stan and Iām wasting my time on earth.
I do enjoy perusing TikTok but I rebel in the following ways: -reporting every video using a child as content
-saying every single ad is āunpleasantā
-saying ānot interestedā on anyone who has āSAHMā or ā2025 brideā or āboy momā in their name (this is just because I find it so fucking annoying) (wait is this somehow internalized misogyny?)
-blocking anyone that is hot just to be hot and not offering anything else of valueā¦ get that bag i guess but not from meeeee
My friends would say that my type is medium ugly but truly I go for kindness over anything, and have no physical type - itās all about kindness and understanding. If someone makes me feel comfortable in their company by being patient and non-judgmental, and being emotionally open and communicative, then i am way more likely to be attracted to them - kindness is whatās sexy to me, nothing to do with actual looks. Remember, sexy is subjective. e.g, abs on a man do nothing for me, Iād much rather a dad bod even on a physical only level. Beauty standards are made up and strange. And often times, itās charisma, humour and kindness that make me feel that someone has sexy energy.
