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Rec'd on 🤯 Crush Alert
Having a crush is the entire reason to be alive
it makes everything so much sweeter and giddier!!
the best part about having a crush is sharing it with your bffs — highly recommend a multi hour phone call or in person gab sesh ala Aquamarine (10/10 movie in general, but the friend & crush vibe is elite)
lean into the silliness!! Learn to laugh at yourself when you catch the crush making you silly. consider how damn endearing it is when you see someone so earnestly in like and enjoy that quality in yourself
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@its_just_kate
Nov 17, 2024
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@veronjque
Just finished a two hour long convo with my bestfriend (with additional tarot reading) about "the crush", and I have to admit it was so much fun. The thing that makes me laugh is that we (me and my bff) believe its reciprocated. Saw them last night and the amount of times they tried to act nonchalant while keeping an eye on me actually SENT me. Wonder if they catch me being silly as well. I love how u phrased this: "consider how damn endearing it is when you see someone so earnestly in like and enjoy that quality in yourself"!!!!
Nov 17, 2024
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Get off social media
at least casually. don’t delete the accounts but don’t have the apps on your phone either.
rediscover your love of reading thru the magic of recognizing titles strangers are holding on the subway. become a subway reader.
don’t use sound as an escape from your thoughts/feelings/surroundings. grocery shopping without headphones is actually kind of beautiful!
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go outside more. like, a lot more.
(took this much less literally, so apologies if it’s not what you’re looking for lol — as a narcoleptic I have no tips on how to Not Sleep since Sleep is basically my job)
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keeps it funky, keeps it fresh! a book for outside, a book for downstairs, a book for bed, a book for the subway, a book for the bathtub…..
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